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	<title>THE MOST CAKE &#187; coming out</title>
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		<title>The Week in Gay: The Beaver sucks, Moscow Pride is cancelled and ZOMG Rashida Jones!</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/the-week-in-gay-the-beaver-sucks-moscow-pride-is-cancelled-and-zomg-rashida-jones/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/the-week-in-gay-the-beaver-sucks-moscow-pride-is-cancelled-and-zomg-rashida-jones/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 18:55:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devils Food Cake</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Devil&#8217;s Food Cake The Most Cake’s weekly round-up of lesbian-ish/gay lady/queer grrrl news from around the world. Don&#8217;t leave it to beaver. Jodie Foster&#8217;s new film sucks, apparently &#8211; which is unsurprising, given that the racist, wife-beating Mel Gibson is in it. IDAHO! The 7th annual International Day Against Homophobia was this past week [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Come on out: average coming out age drops by 20 years</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/come-on-out-average-coming-out-age-drops-by-20-years/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/come-on-out-average-coming-out-age-drops-by-20-years/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Nov 2010 11:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devils Food Cake</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=14019</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Devil&#8217;s Food Cake A new poll by gay equality charity Stonewall says that Britons under 18 are coming out when they&#8217;re 15, on average. The overall average age at which Britons come out has dropped by more than 20 years. All I can say is: yay baby gays! You guys warm the cockles of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tuesday Top Ten&#8230; Cringe-worthy/Heartfelt TMC coming out stories</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/tuesday-top-ten-cringe-worthyheartfelt-tmc-coming-out-stories/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/tuesday-top-ten-cringe-worthyheartfelt-tmc-coming-out-stories/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Oct 2010 19:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cake Contributors</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[coming out]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[coming out to you friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coming out to your parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lesbian coming out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lesbian coming out stories]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=13117</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by the Cakettes Today is National Coming Out Day. And whilst idiots such as this still exist there is plenty of reason to declare your queer status and shout it from the rooftops. Of course coming out isn&#8217;t something that you do just once but rather again and again as you meet new people and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Music Video Monday&#8230; Kele Okereke &#8211; Tenderoni</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/musicmakers/music-video-monday-kele-okereke-tenderoni/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/musicmakers/music-video-monday-kele-okereke-tenderoni/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 23:52:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devils Food Cake</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[MUSICMAKERS]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bloc party]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coming out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gay]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[music video monday]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=11084</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Devil&#8217;s Food Cake For those of you who didn&#8217;t know, the former lead singer of Bloc Party, Kele Okereke, recently came out and has begun talking more about his sexuality. There&#8217;s a lot of talk about celebrities coming out recently, from Gaga to Lady Sovereign to that American country singer, and whether or not [...]]]></description>
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		<title>TMC Interviews&#8230; Out At Lunch: Alisa Arnah and Emma Brogen talk parents, coming out and Cambridge gays</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/culture/tmc-interviews-out-at-lunch-alisa-arnah-and-emma-brogen-talk-parents-coming-out-and-cambridge-gays/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/culture/tmc-interviews-out-at-lunch-alisa-arnah-and-emma-brogen-talk-parents-coming-out-and-cambridge-gays/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 05:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sticky Toffee Pudding</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[CULTURE]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cambridge University]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coming out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[documentary]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lesbians]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life slice films]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=7862</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Sticky Toffee Pudding It’s been a fair few weeks since I told you all about ‘Out At Lunch’, Emma Brogen’s docu-baby into the foray of lesbian acceptance at Cambridge University. An honest and heart-warming film, Emma explores themes of identity, expectation and friendship against the splendour that is Cambridge, with her sister Alisa Arnah [...]]]></description>
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		<title>TMC Reviews&#8230; Out At Lunch &#8211; gay girls and graduation at Cambridge University</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/culture/tmc-reviews-out-at-lunch/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/culture/tmc-reviews-out-at-lunch/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 14:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sticky Toffee Pudding</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[CULTURE]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=6418</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Sticky Toffee Pudding For many university students about to graduate, their primary concerns are usually exam results, what they’re going to do after and not making a total arse of themselves as they go up on stage to collect their degree. Thus, filming a documentary about being a lesbian on the cusp of this [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Jumping the fence: or why the Times sucks at reporting on gay women</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/jumping-the-fence/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/jumping-the-fence/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2009 17:02:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devils Food Cake</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[LOVE-LIFE]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[coming out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cynthia nixon]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[susie orbach]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=4950</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Devil&#8217;s Food Cake Somebody needs to stop me from ever being able to read The Times, because more articles in this vein, and I&#8217;m going to round up a lynch mob. The latest in their interesting take on sexuality and gay women focusses on mid-life &#8216;fence-jumpers&#8217;, women who come out late in life and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tuesday Top Ten&#8230; office christmas party blunders</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/we-like/tuesday-top-ten-office-christmas-party-blunders/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/we-like/tuesday-top-ten-office-christmas-party-blunders/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 12:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Florentine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=4363</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Florentine It’s that time of year again; odd German markets that only ever exist when it’s cold, winter wonderlands and the requisite bruises that accompany them (ice skating folks, ice skating) and &#8211; relevantly for this week’s Top Ten &#8211; more inadvisable hangovers than you can shake a litre bottle of Jack Daniels at.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A mother always knows</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/a-mother-always-knows/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/a-mother-always-knows/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 09:39:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sticky Toffee Pudding</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=3486</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Sticky Toffee Pudding It is my suspicion that some mothers belong to a secret underground network of ancient mystical knowledge, like a society of supernatural spies.  It is during the process of birth (ours, not theirs) that they are initiated. The epidural that so many of them receive is really nothing more than a DMT style [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tuesday Top Ten&#8230; worst ways to come out.</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/tuesday-top-ten-worst-ways-to-come-out/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/tuesday-top-ten-worst-ways-to-come-out/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 17:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devils Food Cake</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=3795</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Devil’s Food Cake and Bon Bon I think we can all pretty much agree that coming out is almost always a horror story. There are some good times, sure, but, like the girl with the curl, when it’s bad, it’s horrid. My own (semi-) coming out experience wasn’t so much a “coming out” as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>An open letter to Lisa Snowdon.</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/an-open-letter-to-lisa-snowdon/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/an-open-letter-to-lisa-snowdon/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 09:46:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devils Food Cake</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=3645</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Devil’s Food Cake Dear Lisa, So I’m sitting here on the train back from Kent. It’s late, I’m cold, I’ve had a long day and the snotty teenagers who were making faces at me across the table have only just (finally) gotten off the train. I’m bored, tired, frustrated and I really need to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>In defence of tourists</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/in-defence-of-tourists/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/in-defence-of-tourists/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 10:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cake Contributors</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[LOVE-LIFE]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bi-curious]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[coming out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confusion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[katy perry]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=3290</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Bon Bon A girl from work took me out to lunch last week and asked if I found ‘straight gay angst’ annoying. Once I’d established this wasn’t angst about me being gay, which would have been annoying, but about her being a little gay, I assured her it wasn’t. Quite the opposite.  Girls wanting [...]]]></description>
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		<title>In living colour?</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/in-living-colour/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/right-on/in-living-colour/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 11:18:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devils Food Cake</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=2647</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Devil&#8217;s Food Cake Newsflash from the world of celebrity, where every opinion is indispensable: apparently, according to Jeremy Clarkson, TV is obsessed with hiring &#8216;Black, Muslim Lesbians&#8217;. This is to balance out the heterosexual, white male surplus. Forget the fact that I generally think Jeremy Clarkson is a knob, what I&#8217;d really like to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>So is La Roux out..?</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/musicmakers/so-is-la-roux-out/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/musicmakers/so-is-la-roux-out/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 23:33:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petit Fours</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[coming out]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=2374</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Petit Fours Has the androgynous synth-popper with the dizzingly high quiff actually come out? She&#8217;s been pretty coy about the sexuality thing, what with the whole it&#8217;s-a-secret-no-one-will-ever-know line. But maybe the shell is slowly cracking. In an article in the Observer a few days ago she said a couple of things that hint at [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to fail at being a lesbian</title>
		<link>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/how-to-fail-at-being-a-lesbian/</link>
		<comments>http://themostcake.co.uk/love-life/how-to-fail-at-being-a-lesbian/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 00:49:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Florentine</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://themostcake.co.uk/?p=104</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[by Florentine Ever stepped tentatively into your first gay club and spent half the night patting yourself on the back for becoming the brave new, pioneering self you always knew you could be, before drinking enough WKD to dye your bloodstream blue and seeking out the only straight man in the whole building for another [...]]]></description>
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